I also know some cis gay guys who hate the word "cock" and bristle at its use. It took meeting the right guy, slowly fingering me, seeing how I reacted. The most interesting places I've lived — Zambia, South Africa, London — happened during that time, and those experiences were wasted on someone with no cognizance, no words yet. Using gender-neutral pronouns, at least until someone's pronouns are confirmed, is not hard and is something you can do every day. But of course, this is not the only challenge that transgender women face when it comes to sex. If you meet a sexy trans guy in a bathhouse or sex club, you don't have to have a long, sit-down discussion of preferred words, permissible sex acts, and so on.
If you meet a sexy trans guy in a bathhouse or sex club, you don't have to have a long, sit-down discussion of preferred words, permissible sex acts, and so on.
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Fetishizing trans men is problematic for the same reason that fetishizing black men and HIV-positive men are problematic. Start there. Having sex with trans men doesn't make you sexually adventurous.
Thankfully, hookup apps usually do the work for me.
